Category: cherish

Will you stay in a marriage without love?

I grew up watching how my late father loved my mother very much till the end of his age. He was not religious until the last few weeks of his life that he decided to be a Christian.

In contrast, as years have passed, I find myself in a marriage that has no love. He has not cherished me to the extent that I feel he is full of contempt at me and hence I have started to question myself why must I be nice to him.

The marriage covenant ends when this life ends. Jesus tells us in Luke 20:34-35 that there is no marriage in heaven. Marriage is an earthly institution with a heavenly purpose.

Honestly, I suffer from some forms of depressions from his stonewalling, which he said he enjoyed the past few months of stonewalling me, during the Easter 2019. But, it’s stupid! I must love myself more, do my own things.

Cherish every day of life

On 20190405, while I saw a photo [1] taken when I volunteered in Xmas 2004 and Papa encouraged me to finish my duty in spite of his short visit, I got curious about a junior holding my shoulder.

Then, I became curious of how she is doing now. From her Facebook page, I learned about a young man who passed away at age 31. My thought also went to a junior who died in his late 20s. They were actually talented and well-educated young men. Sad!

I could not imagine the feelings of their parents.

Life is so precious.

Let us cherish every moment, not to waste on gossips or Facebook, but to learn and create meaningful things.

“When you feel unloved, unimportant, or insecure, remember to whom you belong.” -Eph 2:19-22